Thought Catalog

If He Refuses To Do These 13 Things During Sex, He Can Go Fuck Himself

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 10:00 PM PDT

Troy Freyee
Troy Freyee

1. Eat you out. I don’t care how he feels about the smell or the taste. If he expects you to shove a cock down your throat, then he can circle his tongue around your clit for a few minutes. It’s not that big of a deal.

2. Wear a condom. Unless you want an itchy vagina or a baby in your belly, then don’t waste your time with any guy who refuses to wear a rubber.

3. Keep himself groomed. If you go through the trouble of shaving off all the hair from your armpits to your pussy, then the least he can do is keep his genitals clean. You don’t need to get stray hairs stuck in your teeth, either.

4. Be patient. It takes women a while to orgasm, so he better be willing to touch you for more than five minutes. If he doesn’t care about making you cum, then you shouldn’t care about dumping him.

5. Look you in the eyes. Unless you’ve agreed to keep things casual, then he should stare into your gorgeous eyes between kisses. Good sex is about more than the way he touches you. It’s about forming a spiritual connection, as well.

6. Touch your clitoris. If he refuses to rub your clit, because it doesn’t do anything for him, then he’s a total douche. Most women don’t cum from penetration alone. They need those clit touches.

7. Get your consent. It doesn’t matter if he’s your boyfriend or your husband. He can’t just fuck you whenever he wants. He needs permission to enter you. Consent is a privilege, not a right.

8. Kiss you on the lips. If he only pays attention to your tits and everything below them, he can go fuck himself. After all, kisses on the lips can be just as sexy as kisses on the clit.

9. Engage in foreplay. Patience is the sign of an excellent lover. Women need tons of foreplay, so if he genuinly wants you to enjoy his dick, he needs to get you wet beforehand.

10. Communicate. Sex shouldn’t be filled with silence. He should listen when you tell him what you want, and he should give you feedback of his own. You’re not mind readers, so speak your mind.

11. Get on top. Even if you’re in better shape than he is, you shouldn’t be stuck doing all of the work. He needs to put in his fair share. He can throw you in missionary, do you doggy style, or come up with some fancy new position. It doesn’t matter, as long as he’s the one exerting energy.

12. Set the mood. Does he expect you to sleep with him, even though his room is covered in ants and the lock on his door is broken? Then screw him. You don’t need candles and wine, but you shouldn’t settle for having sex in a pigsty, either.

13. Cuddle. What happens after sex is just as important as what happens during sex. That’s why he better be willing (and eager) to slip a hand around you and pull you onto his chest for a nap. TC mark

20 Times When He’s Picturing You Completely Naked

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 08:00 PM PDT

Twenty20, _saraheiseman_
Twenty20, _saraheiseman_

1. When you’re walking around wearing super tight (and revealing) yoga pants that show off the curve of your ass. He’s picturing what it would look like without the fabric in the way.

2. When you’re at the movie theater and a sex scene pops on. Don’t worry, because he’s not focused on the woman on screen. He’s imagining what it would be like to fuck you after the film’s over.

3. When you joke about something sexual. It doesn’t matter if it’s some disgusting dirty joke, because it’s going to make him think of sex, and sex is going to make him think of your naked body.

4. When you send him a Snapchat that he didn’t get the chance to open yet. Even though he knows it’s probably not a nude picture, he’s imagining what it would look like if it was a nude picture.

5. When you text him that you’re about to shower or that you just stepped out of the shower. Even if you don’t say it in a sexual way, he’s going to imagine what you look like with water running down your naked body.

6. When you bend over or squat or get into any other position that would work well in the bedroom.

7. When you tell him stories about the one-night stand you had or the time you went skinny dipping. As you speak, you can bet your ass he’s going to be picturing your ass.

8. When he sees your thong peeking out from your jeans. He can handle seeing a bra strap, but a glimpse of a thong will send his mind wandering.

9. When you remove your sweatshirt or unbutton a few buttons. When he sees you taking some clothing off, he’ll wish you were taking it all off.

10. When you talk about how you have nothing to wear. His solution? Wear nothing.

11. When he’s watching porn. If he really likes you, then his mind is going to drift away from the actresses to imagine what you would look like naked.

12. When you’re texting him late at night from your bed. He’s hoping that you sleep naked.

13. When your cleavage is killing it. He likes your shirt and wishes he could see what’s hidden beneath it.

14. When you’re in bed together. It doesn’t matter if you’re cuddling or if you’re sitting on opposite ends of the bed while watching YouTube videos together. Beds remind men of sex.

15. When you invite him over to watch Netflix. He thinks that’s code for a booty call, so he’s going to imagine the body that he assumes he’s going to see later.

16. When he’s masturbating. He’s not going to touch himself while fantasizing about you wearing a parka with earmuffs and gloves. Obviously, you’re going to be naked in his mind.

17. When you’re listening to music together and a risquΓ© song comes on. How is he supposed to think tame thoughts when Drake is singing about having sex tonight?

18. When he’s bored. If he really likes you, then he’ll think about you naked whenever he has a spare moment to fantasize.

19. When you kiss him. He’s praying that your make-out session will lead to sex, so he can see your beautiful body.

20. When you tell him you’re horny. It’ll make him horny, too. TC mark

22 Disgusted People Reveal The Absolute Trashiest Thing They Ever Saw In Public

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 07:00 PM PDT / Yuri_Arcurs / Yuri_Arcurs

1. Fight over Taco Bell

I saw a visibly pregnant girl throw down her cigarette to get in a fist fight at Taco Bell at 2 AM. A police officer broke it up.

— kel_mindelan

2. Wait…?

I work at a restaurant. Yesterday I looked out into the parking lot and saw a pregnant woman, in scrubs, smoking a cigarette. She came into my restaurant and up to my register and I saw that her ID badge said “head of nurses, [hospital name].” Her eyes were bloodshot and she seemed not sober. I was so confused.

— __worldpeace

3. If you gotta go, you gotta go!

Drunk girl couldn’t find a toilet on Saturday night so proceeded to pee in her handbag.

— layn27

4. “You don’t even know”

Walking to a diner after bar adventures at 2am, we take the shortcut down an alley and stumble upon a prostitute with one leg wedged up high on a dumpster while she…relieves herself. It was like someone just tapped a fire hydrant. I said “rough night?” as we passed and she said, “sweetheart, you don’t know the half of it.” It still haunts my dreams and that was at least 10 years ago.

— dart51984

5. What is she doing on the sidewalk?

I was walking down the street when out of the corner of my eye I saw a lady kneeling further down the sidewalk. She saw me, got up and started walking in my direction, and as she passed she shot me a nasty look and yelled, “I don’t give a fuck!” I was confused until I passed by the place she was kneeling at and saw a small pile of shit.

— N3MO_

6. Hm, what’s going on here?

A pregnant woman putting out her cigarette on her kids’ school bag whilst yelling “No way am I doing that ya dog!” into the phone.

— pungrypungryhippo

7. Trashiest night ever with mom!

Walked past two people having sex at a glass tram stop in the middle of a road with full visibility in almost every direction.

Invited my mum over to see my new apartment. Some lady in the street who was totally off her face and stumbling everywhere at 2 in the afternoon decided to yell abuse and racial slurs at us. My mum was a bit shaken so I took her up to my place and pointed out what a lovely view of the park I have. We proceed to admire the view and after a few seconds of watching a guy getting a blowjob in broad daylight I decided to just make her a cup of tea.

— phtevens

8. This mom doesn’t give a fuck

I was at a Marshall’s buying some clothes and this younger mom (couldn’t be more than 25) and her 2 or 3 year old daughter were near me. The daughter sneezes and the mom takes a t-shirt off the rack, wipes her nose with it, and puts it back on the rack.

I let out an audible gasp cause that shit is nasty. She pretends I am not there and walks away with her now cleaned up daughter. I walk up to the shirt they used and it has snot all over the front side of it. From that day on, I always washed any new clothes I bought.

— Uhhhhdel

9. Don’t go to the buffet

At a buffet, a woman peeling the crispy skin off of a whole tray of fried chicken and piling it on her plate. She walked off leaving a pile of stripped chicken and ate her plate full of skin.

— streamstroller


I was in Spain as a kid, 25 years ago. We were in the countryside and enjoying the view with Binoculars. Saw a man we think was a shepherd who:

  • Took a shit
  • Wiped his ass by digging it out with his hand
  • Took out his penis, started pissing-
  • Then proceeded to wash his hands in the jet of piss.

Did it all like he had done it a million times before, which he probably had. I was nine years old at the time — can never unsee.

— Mofme

11. This story is wild

This lady who came into the liquor store I used to work at on Fourth of July, actually, it was the last day I was there. This lady came in, around late 40s or 50s. She was completely beet red, in a see through shirt and bikini, not the most flattering look. She grabbed a fifth of jΓ€ger from the fridge. She said, “sorry I’ve been drinking all day.” Then this dude comes up behind her with another fifth of jΓ€ger. And then she just keeps yelling at this poor dude, “put it back or I’ll fuck your girlfriend!

And it was at that moment that I realized I don’t want to be back there as an employee ever again.

— Rollins10

12. Never too old to be trashy

A middle-aged couple dry humping against my parked car like they were horny teens. I was still in it.

As in they were up against the side of my car (towards the rear, possibly one butt cheek on top of my trunk at some point at the most), but not actually both on top of it, like on the hood or roof or something. I was parked so I faced a wall, and they were just in my blind spot, so all I could really feel was the rhythmic rocking, but Lord knows they were all up in that business like two possibly drunk (and/or high) savages. Can’t remember if I turned the ignition or not at some point, or they just left on their own, but it only lasted for about 30-45 seconds.

— MacheteDont

13. Stop pissing in public!

A woman holding her little girl’s skirts up (2 or 3 years old) so she could have a wee directly in front of my livingroom window. I had to go stand in the kitchen until I was sure they’d moved on.

There is a public toilet within sight of the house, approximately 20m away, but no, this woman thought it was more appropriate to just let her daughter urinate in the middle of a well-used public walkway.

— blinky84

14. Momma’s Bar

At a supper club in rural WI, the teenage girl who was bartender was also drinking while working … while babysitting her son. It was about 9pm and there was a fistful of townies hanging out and whatnot. Momma was smokin’ cigarettes and chatting while dancing her baby on the bar.

At one point she leaned over and asked my friend if she could hold the baby “for a hot minute while I go in the bathroom with jimmy”

— inline-triple

15. Walmart

I watched a morbidly obese woman in a wife beater, no bra, and booty shorts open a packet of wet bathroom wipes, remove one, dig down into her shorts to wipe her ass crack, and put the container and used shit stained wipe back on the shelf. Just standing in the aisle wiping her ass like its no big deal. This, of course, happened at Walmart.

On a less disgusting note, I was getting my car service last year and a young mom (probably around my age, honestly) had her infant with her. My jaw dropped as she put diet mountain dew into a baby bottle and prop it up in the baby’s mouth while she went to smoke a cigarette. This baby couldn’t have been more than 3 months. Its amazing the shit clueless parents will do to their kids.

— disclaimer_necessary

16. T-R-A-S-H-Y

It was at night on St. Patrick’s day about 2-3 years ago. Some friends and I walked past a couple making out in the grass next to a busy intersection. 45 minutes later we’re heading back the way we came and now these two drunken lovebirds are straight up fucking out in the open. Good times

— Sparkyfrosh

17. All the emotions here

This was really sad. I was riding the bus home and these two severely intoxicated adults were blabbering on and being obscene. They were talking loudly about being on drugs and they were groping each other. Everyone on the bus was just trying to ignore them. Then this voice rings out from the back of the bus and it’s their young teen son.

They didn’t know he was on the bus and he had to witness this behavior and I’m sure by the look on his face that’d he’d experienced this before. He pleaded with them to stop and they just doubled down. He looked like he was going to be in tears and he just got off the bus and left. I wanted to run after him and offer some kind of help but there was nothing I could do. I hope that kid turned out ok :/

— NhicolasCage

18. Why did you have to reproduce?

I worked a admissions gate at a local fair this year, some guy is walking out with his wife and probably two-year-old daughter. He has a shirt on with an arrow pointing to his wife on his left and it says, “I only keep her around for the blow jobs.”


19. King Neckbeard

Went to a bar on new years and saw some interesting people. Most notably I saw what looked to be the king neckbeard. A very obese, disheveled man wearing a black kilt and a tucked in black shirt which said “I shaved my balls for this?”

He looked exactly like how you would picture him.

— BigOmega

20. Having sex under the fireworks

I was at a fireworks show at the beach this past 4th of July. There is a couple where the chick is clearly half the guy’s age…like it could have been his daughter. They are all over each other to the point where it’s noticeable to everyone around them.

My friends and I are chuckling at them and what not but then the fireworks start and we all focus on that. I look back and the girl is giving the guy a handjob under their blanket. The blanket is visibly flapping up and down. Meanwhile, there are families and kids running around. No shame whatsoever.

— TheWhiskeyTickler

21. What the…

I was at the mall when I saw a woman change her baby’s diaper at the rest area (the spot with benches, trees, water fountain, etc) which was all of maybe 15 feet from the restroom. She dumped the shitty diaper in the tree planter along with the shit-covered wipes and walked off — leaving the powerful stink of baby turds wafting around the rest area.

— SirWeeble

22. Blowjobs for everyone!

Outside my favorite college bar, I saw a couple each wearing matching Marlboro jackets. The female peeled and ate a banana whole. She then preceded to blow her boyfriend in front of 10 or so onlookers, including the bouncer who merely asked them to take it around the corner.

— beyondthehominid TC mark

This Guy Texted A Wrong Number Asking For Drugs And He Had No Idea The Hilarity That Was Coming

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 06:00 PM PDT

We’ve probably all done it by now, accidently sent a text message to the wrong number. Usually, it is a fairly harmless thing, like a misplaced “hello Kelsey” that is met with an “um, wrong number” text. But sometimes these mistakes can be a lot more embarrassing. Sometimes they can also be hilarious.

This is one of those times.

This poor guy thought he was going to be able to get some illegal drugs from the number he texted. What he got instead were a lot of LOLs.

via Imgur
via Imgur

Moral of the story: if you get a random test message, make it as funny as possible for the rest of us. TC mark

44 Texts To Send Him When You’re Still In That Flirty Stage

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 05:01 PM PDT

Derrick Freske
Derrick Freske

1. The only good part about being single is that I get to flirt with you.

2. Stop being so cute or I’m going to have to ask you on a date.

3. I really want pizza. And a cute guy to eat it with.

4. That Instagram photo you just posted is ridiculously sexy.

5. I can’t think of anything interesting to say, but I really wanted to talk to you.

6. You wouldn’t believe the dream I had about you last night.

7. I wore the cutest outfit today. Too bad you didn’t get to see it.

8. My dog misses you. Come visit him.

9. I literally smile every single time your name pops up on my phone.

10. My bed is way too big for one person.

11. Any girl that turns you down is a complete idiot.

12. I hate people. You’re the only exception.

13. What would you say if I told you I really like you?

14. I’m free this weekend. What about you?

15. I thought about you so many times today it’s embarrassing.

16. I’m sick of flirting over the phone. Let’s do it in person.

17. I can’t stop staring at that picture you sent me.

18. If you stop by my house tonight, I’ll make it worth your while.

19. It’s been way too long since we’ve hung out, don’t you think?

20. My friends keep saying how we’d make the cutest couple.

21. Today sucked. I need you to come over to cheer me up.

22. It’s hard to concentrate on work when you keep popping into my head.

23. Do you have Snapchat?

24. I’m going to shower. Wish you were here to join me.

25. Have you ever thought about what it would be like if we kissed? Because I have.

26. I have a case of beer and a weekend off from work. The only thing missing is you.

27. I can’t fall asleep without someone cuddling me.

28. I just bought the cutest new bra.

29. Every time I close my eyes, I see your smile.

30. You’re too sexy to be single.

31. You’re going to think I’m lying, but you’re pretty much my dream guy.

32. I can’t think of anyone I’d like to spend this weekend with more than you.

33. Even over text, you’re adorable.

34. I just saw the cutest actor on TV. Made me think of you.

35. I wish you were here with me right now.

36. I can’t believe I actually found a guy who’s smart and funny and insanely hot.

37. My friends are sick of hearing me talk about you.

38. You honestly make me laugh harder than I’ve ever laughed before.

39. My day would’ve been much better if you were in it.

40. I could text you until two in the morning.

41. Miss me yet?

42. Do you have any idea how hot you are?

43. You’re way too cute. It’s not fair.

44. We should go on a date, don’t you think? TC mark

17 Things About Traveling The World I Wish Someone Had Told Me Earlier

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 04:30 PM PDT


1. Don't buy the biggest backpack you can find.

You think you'll be fine if you get a bigger pack so you can fit all your stuff in it, but it just becomes brutally heavy. Pack what you know you will need and bring NOTHING else. Seriously, don't bring anything you think, "well just incase" because you won't wear it or use it and it will just end up adding extra pounds to your bag. Pack your bag then unpack it and repack it, while removing everything you aren't sure you'll use.

2. Souvenirs are a complete waste of money.

Don't spend any money on material items, unless you're in need of something on the trip. If I buy anything while I'm traveling it's a sticker, they're cheap, light and inexpensive. If you buy a t-shirt at every place you go you'll end up adding extra things you don't need and you'll wish you still had that wasted $20 to use for a couple meals or a hostel, depending where you are in the world.

3. Traveling isn't a vacation.

Traveling long-term is exhausting. I don't think most people realize how time consuming planning, researching and budgeting is. When you're not out exploring a place you're usually trying to book your next plane ticket or bus ticket, while trying to find out what there is to do at your next destination. It's a never-ending cycle of planning and being prepared.

4. Always leave much earlier than suggested to make it on time.

One more time for the people in the back, ALWAYS leave MUCH earlier than suggested to make it on time. I couldn't tell you how many times I've been told it will only be a 15 minute walk or if I catch that tram it will get me there in 5 minutes, but things never work out. I've almost missed the only bus to bring me to an airport that was an hour way because I waited for a tram that wasn't coming and then started walking in the wrong direction because the directions I were given at the hostel were wrong. Or when I almost missed a tour bus because there was two streets with the same name about half a kilometer away from each other. Something is bound to go wrong, and if it doesn't being early won't kill you, in fact it will help you breath easier.

5. Traveling alone is honestly better.

When you're traveling with someone the idea of having a mate by your side seems awesome, until you don't want to do the same things, or they want to go home and you want to go out. Or until you start getting irritated with each other over directions and destinations. Traveling alone might seem scary, but it's not as bad as it seems. You'll meet tons of friends along the way for the most part and rarely be on your own unless you actually want to be.

6. Hostels are the best way to go and sharing rooms aren't that bad.

I was a bit worried the first time I stayed in a hostel, then I realized it was kind of like college dorm rooms. You meet people and you spend time with them for a little bit then go your own ways. Some people you'll never talk to again or some can become your life long friends, it all depends. And definitely check out Hostelworld before booking a hostel because the reviews are super helpful.

7. Lonely Planet can be a life savor if you're worried about traveling alone.

Lonely planet offers a service called "travel buddies & for sale" where you can actually input your dates and locations and find other solo travelers who are looking for companions to meet up with. It's a great way to talk to other's about their experiences and make connections before you even arrive.

8. You'll never be able to do everything.

I think this one is hard for every traveler to grasp, but it's impossible to do it all, no matter how hard you try. There will be two things you want to do, or something that just isn't in your budget, or a destination you can't make it to because of time. You'll never be able to hit every spot on the map because there is too much in the world to do and see, and sometimes that's a hard pill to swallow, but it's true. You have to prioritize what you really want to see and do.

9. Leave all your expectations behind.

The only thing worse than having high expectations is being disappointed when those expectations aren't met. Everyone I met has loved Melbourne, I thought it was an OK city and I didn't feel the need to stay there more than one day. I had a good time, but it wasn't all it was made out to be. So, I learned to leave your expectations behind and just live in the moment. Go to your destination with a blank mindset and just wrap yourself up in the moments of your trip because there will be things you see and do that just completely blow your mind in the best way possible because you weren't expecting how beautiful it could be. Expectations can either make or break a trip, so try to leave them at the airport because some people's dream destinations could be another person's nightmare.

10. The urge to travel more doesn't simply "go away."

The thing with traveling is that no matter what once you've got the "wanderlust bug" it's more than likely always going to be there. You're always going to find yourself looking up plane tickets, even if you had no intentions to go to a place once you get an email with airfare deals you instantly start considering it. I've started considering going places because I meet someone who went there or because a friend lives there and I want to go so it's a perfect excuse.

11. You can't travel forever and not work.

Money is not infinite, no matter how much we wish it were. It will run out and you will have to work. The best thing I can recommend if you're trying to avoid the "real world" as long as possible is to find jobs that are temporary in order to earn some extra cash. Hostels usually have signs hanging up for work, but also talk to others about what they've done for money. I'm currently working a 10-day fair in South Australia for money. The work might not always be enjoyable, but the trip you'll get out of it will be.

12. You learn to adjust your mindset quiet frequently.

Sometimes things might not work out like you expected, but tough shit. That's the way it's going to be. You're not home anymore so you don't have the comfort you're used to. You might be completely sick of Thai food, but you're in Thailand so street food it is for another meal. You might hate a certain food, but it's basically eat it or starve. While traveling you don't always have tons of options, sometimes you just have to suck it up and do the best you can with what you have.

13. Doing nothing is insanely boring, even if you’re sitting on the beach.

As much as people think sitting around all day with nothing to do is fun, it's not. It's absolutely boring and actually starts to drive you insane. You need to do something, weather it's study, or create a travel blog, or pick up a new hobby based on your location. But sitting around with nothing to do for extended periods of time is not all it's cracked up to be. If you find nothing else to do volunteer somewhere, it will feel good for the soul and make you not feel so brain dead and useless.

14. People are generally nice.

A lot of times we generalize the world as "scary" but it's not as bad as it's made out to be. I've meet some really nice people stopping them on the street to ask for directions, of course some people will walk by, but most are happy to help. I've trusted strangers enough to leave my laptop out in cafΓ©s when I'm going to the bathroom. The world isn't evil; sometimes you just need to give people a chance. People also love to talk to you when they notice you're accent in a foreign location. They like to hear your background and it's surprisingly nice to talk to people who are interested in your life. You can have some of the best conversations with people you meet on the streets.

15. It can be very lonely from time to time.

There are days when you wonder if it's all worth it. There are days you want to quit and not get on any of your other plane rides and just book a one-way flight home because you miss familiarity and your family and friends. There are times when you feel sad you're missing out on everything back home and feel like everyone has forgot all about you. But then you have moments where you're in total awe of the world or you meet someone and they feel like your soul friend. You have hard times, but the good times more than outweigh the bad and you're reminded why you do what you do. Embrace the bad times, but also love the good times.

16. Speed is not everything.

You'll burn yourself out and your bank out if you try to cram everything you want to do into a short window of time. Instead of trying to hit four countries in a month period, only aim for two. Take your time exploring and really make the most of your trip. It will save you money and exhaustion from trying to jam it all into a tight window.

17. You will need to go home.

If you're starting to get irritated, your emotions are running all over the place and you're bank account is barely afloat it's probably time to head home. Going home doesn't mean you've failed it simply means you need to recharge. It means you need to get ahold of your life again before you head back out into the world. Traveling the world is fun, but sometimes we all need a little refresher away from hostels and planes, and to be around people we love for a little bit. TC mark

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Posted: 20 Sep 2016 04:01 PM PDT


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21 ‘PG-13’ Texts To Send Your Boyfriend (That’ll Make Him Crave You Even More)

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 03:00 PM PDT


1. I can't stop thinking about you.

2. I can't wait to see you later.

3. I wore this outfit for you, can't wait to show you tonight. 😘

4. I would do anything to kiss you right now. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

5. You've been in my head all day.

6. I want to kiss your neck, right in that spot that drives you crazy. πŸ˜œπŸ’‹

7. I miss you.

8. I'm seeing you tonight, and you can't argue. 😍😍😍

9. I'm wearing that dress you like. πŸ˜‹πŸ‘—

10. Hi baby, I'm thinking about you right now and I just wanted to let you know.

11. I love you. πŸ˜πŸ’

12. I can't wait to run my fingers over those shoulder muscles. πŸ’ͺ😍😍

13. I'm going to kiss every inch of you. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

14. I'm wearing that perfume you like. 😘

15. I can't wait to feel your lips on mine. πŸ’‹

16. My whole body aches for you.

17. I can't stop imagining how good it will feel to kiss you. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

18. I wish I could fast-forward this day so I could just be in your arms already. πŸ˜₯

19. I don't know if I can survive another second without you.

20. I just want to feel your lips on my skin. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ˜˜

21. I need you. TC mark

The Science Behind Your Relationship And Why You’re Attracted To Certain People More Than Others

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 02:00 PM PDT

Allef Vinicius
Allef Vinicius

Love has often been said to test the boundary between science and magic. Now, more than ever, this seems to be mere poetry. It can be said with some admirable clarity that when you're in love—really, in that "oh this is going to absolutely destroy me when it ends," heart wrenching love—you feel different. Could that feeling be more chemical and less illusion? Science says yes.

No one precipitates the idea that relationships are damned difficult. Running the maze of obstinate communication, misinterpreted signals and mixed feelings can overwhelm even the most monogamous of the human species, but a clear understanding must be realized: there is much biochemistry at work in a relationship as there is good ol' fashioned communication and psychology.

A simple tenet of scientific understanding in a relationship is that fact that men and women approach relationship in tentatively simple ways. Men are often more interested in a sense of physical intimacy, whereas women generally seek out a more emotionally grounded foundation. These man come off as crude, twentieth century generalizations, they are grounded in evidence laid down as early as the 1970's.

Women however are easily more qualified and motivated to be managers of a successful relationship than men. These characteristics, again existing as an outline of a predisposed genetic array do not exist in a vacuum, but are instead backed by evolutionary traits over the history of our species. You can almost certainly discover examples that go against the grain in your own life, but they are the minority, not the majority.

Further evidence has since surfaced that there exists a very real and tangible correlation between romantic love and human evolution. Romantic love has since evolved into a powerful bridge for producing the kind of commitment required for two parents to stay together for a lifetime, thus ensuring the emotional and physical investment required in raising children.

Research into the study of the link between the biochemistry of the brain and how romantic attraction works is fledgling at best—having begun only in the late 1970's—but is growing exponentially.

There exists a basic hypothesis that who you are attracted to isn't an issue of cultural appropriation and luck, but careful processing in both the subconscious and even in the alleles of your genome.

For now, we'll keep swiping right—and left—and hoping for a match. TC mark

What Each Zodiac Sign Has Trouble Admitting To Themselves

Posted: 20 Sep 2016 01:00 PM PDT


Aries (March 21 – April 19)

They don't like to admit that they can veer off course sometimes, they're used to having everything together and being an example for others and they don't like to admit that sometimes they don't know what they're doing because they think it will make them look weak or less credible especially in front of their peers.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

They will never admit that they were wrong — ever. They have too much pride to admit that they made a mistake, they can do anything to try to fix it but you will never hear them actually admit – even to themselves – that they were wrong or wronged someone else or even apologize.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

They secretly know that they can make a lot of promises they know they'll break, because they're always out and about, they often get lost in the moment and make plans for the next 10 years and then go home and change their minds about everything. They know it but they will always refute it.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

They have trouble admitting that they're actually a lot more sensitive that they appear to be, they like to act tough and indifferent but the truth is the smallest remark or comment could really hurt them and keep them up all night. They also don't admit to people that they're upset or hurt because they don't want to show others how vulnerable they really are.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

They don't like to admit that, at the end of the day, they don't want anyone to outshine them, they encourage other people to be bold and confident but they don't want anyone else to steal the show. They're used to running the show and they wouldn't like it any other way.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Virgos like to be proper all the time and they like being the perfectionists of the zodiac, but sometimes they wonder what it's like on the other side, what it's like to be free-spirited and living in the moment. They don't like to admit that they actually care about what people think, their behavior is greatly affected by what others might think of them.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

They don't like to admit that they need help when they're down, they're used to being there for everyone else and they can't handle the fact that they need someone to be there for them too. They like being the ones helping instead of being the ones asking for it.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

Scorpios will never admit that they're heartbreakers. They'll never admit that they seduce everyone and then act like they're just friends. They like to use their charm and their sexuality to attract others, they like being admired by everyone so they can have a pool of admirers to choose from.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

They know they're too forgiving sometimes and a lot of people take them for granted but they'll never say it out loud, they will always give the benefit of the doubt or come up with excuses for the ones they love even if they know that these people don't deserve that kind of love or forgiveness.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

Capricorns will never admit that they're lonely. They will always try to put on a happy face and act like they don't need anyone because they're focused on their career. They will never make people feel that they need anyone or that they can't make it on their own.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

While they have no problem admitting everything, they'll never admit that they have a lot of regrets. They have trouble believing that they didn’t make the best possible decision about something. They will always praise their decisions and tell you it was the right thing to do even if they know that it wasn't.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

They don't like to admit that they pushed someone away. They will always blame others for leaving them and won't really try to see if they were the ones who forced them to leave. They live in their own head and they're always trying to dramatize everything — including their reality.  TC mark