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15 Key Things You’ll Find Out About Him By The Way He Fucks

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 08:00 PM PST

Noah Kalina
Noah Kalina

1. If he’s a good listener. He should be paying attention to your reactions, so he knows what you like and what you don’t like. If he always does that one move you hate, then he’s not observant. That means you probably won’t get the birthday gift you’ve been hinting at for months.

2. If he’s lazy. Does he expect you to get on top all the time? If he won’t even lift a finger to rub your clit, then he probably won’t be helping you with the housework, either.

3. If he’s creative. Is sex the same every single time or does he occasionally shake things up? If he’s creative in bed, he’ll probably be creative when it comes to planning dates and picking out presents, too.

4. If he’s patient. Does he get fed up if it takes you too long to orgasm? If he’s impatient, then you’re going to be miserable when you’re stuck waiting on line at the bank with him or when you’re stuck in traffic.

5. If he’s romantic. Does he tell you how beautiful you are? Does he make an effort to dim the lights and put on music? If he’s not romantic early on in the relationship, that’s never going to change.

6. If he’s charismatic. The better he is at dirty talking, the better he’ll be at communicating in general. That means he won’t be afraid to express his feelings when he’s angry or upset.

7. If he’s trustworthy. If you tell him not to touch you in a certain spot, does he listen? If not, then he probably won’t respect your wishes outside of the bedroom, either.

8. If he’s responsible. Does he use condoms and make sure the door is locked before you two go to town? If you can’t trust him to roll on a rubber, then how can you rely on him to show up to dates on time and remember to text you back?

9. If he’s messy. Does he keep his junk trimmed and wash the sheets after sex? Good hygiene is always a plus. It means he probably won’t leave dishes piled up in the sink for days.

10. If he’s confident. Is he afraid to take off his clothing for you? There’s nothing wrong with being a little insecure, but if he really hates himself, there’s a chance he’ll be highly jealous, which is never a good thing.

11. If he’s selfish. Does he expect you to go down on him constantly? Or does he give oral as often as he receives it? If he only cares about himself during sex, then there’s a pretty big chance he only cares about himself in general.

12. If he’s controlling. It’s one thing if you’re into being dominated. But if he orders you around the bedroom, even though you’ve made it clear that makes you uncomfortable, then don’t be surprised when he tries to control the way you dress and do your make-up.

13. If he’s adventurous. When you mention one of your kinks, does he tell you how weird you are? If he makes you feel like crap about your fantasies, then he clearly doesn’t care about your feelings.

14. If he’s any fun. Does he tease you in between kisses or look stone-faced all the way through? If he’s more serious than playful, you have to decide if that’s the type of guy you want to be with. After all, a sense of humor is important.

15. If he really likes you. Does he make sure you’re comfortable and completely turned on? Does he look you in the eyes while thrusting? Does he make you feel beautiful? If so, then he’s probably going to stick around, because he likes you as much as you like him. TC mark

9 Raunchy Reasons Why Letting Him Cum Up Your Nostril Will Lead To The Best Sex Of Your Life

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 07:00 PM PST

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1. It has truly surprising health benefits. A very famous study actually found that male semen can reduce nasal congestion, decrease the frequency of nosebleeds, and reduce the growth of nose hair. Another study from a very prominent university provided inconclusive, but promising, evidence that semen can actually reduce the frequency of long-term allergies.

2. Most men have a repressed nose fetish that literally nobody is talking about. Almost every single other fetish has been glorified by porn and BDSM books and that’s great, but why are we ignoring one of the most common and taboo fetishes of all?

Research has indicated that at least 78% of men have fantasized about the feminine nose when jerking off. I mean, it makes sense, right? Think of how much we talk about noses being “too big” in popular culture, or how much money people spend on “nose jobs”? Let go of the repression people, embrace it.

3. Couples who kink together, stay together. Sex is not the ONLY thing in a relationship, but let’s be real, it is a big part of it. Vanilla sex is called vanilla because…well like vanilla is great, but you gotta spice it up.

4. It gives you an ironclad excuse not to swallow. Let’s be real, usually cum tastes super gross and is totally disgusting. The only reason we swallow is if (1) we are TOTALLY horny and in the moment (2) our man bothers us about it so much. Here’s a super easy way to get around that annoyance, and still keep him happy.

5. Your nose is already built to get rid of sticky gunk. That’s why we have tissues. One blow of the nose, and his sweet load is gone.

6. The sexy pre-nostril cum positions are endless. Depending on your height, he could be rubbing his buttocks on your boobs as he prepares to fill up your nose’s most intimate caverns. While giving oral to him standing up you could also just make a quick adjustment and seamlessly transition him from your mouth to your sexy nasal hole.

7. This is the only hole we waste, and it’s bullshit. We take advantage of almost every other hole in our body for sex. We use our vaginas most often, and then we use our anuses to shake things up, and we use our mouth for oral. Why do we confine ourselves to those three holes when we also have two perfectly good nostrils?

8. This will actually SURPRISE your man. You know all those sex advice articles you read? I read them too, we all read them — that’s the problem. Everyone is looking at the same shit and nobody is doing anything original. This is original.

9. It saved my relationship. Okay, this is personal, but my boyfriend and I have been together since the 4th grade (that’s 12 years). Just last year he confided in me that he was about to break up with me to “try something new,” but when I savagely screamed, “CUM IN MY NOSE” as he was fucking me (maybe for the last time), he was so turned on it reignited the love he had for me. Take it for what it’s worth, but that’s what happened to me. TC mark

33 Classic Quotes About Astrology That Will Make You Believe (If You Don’t Already)

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 06:30 PM PST

@criene/ Twenty20.com
@criene/ Twenty20.com

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"Anyone can be a millionaire, but to become a billionaire you need an astrologer."

—J. P. Morgan


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"A physician without a knowledge of Astrology has no right to call himself a physician."

—Hippocrates


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"Astrology reveals the will of the gods.

—Juvenal


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"Astrology is just a finger pointing at reality."

—Steven Forrest


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"We need not feel ashamed of flirting with the zodiac.  The zodiac is well worth flirting with."

—D. H. Lawrence


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"The starry vault of heaven is in truth the open book of cosmic projection…"

—Carl Jung


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"Astrology is one of the oldest and most accurate tools known to mankind."

—Chris Flisher


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"Astrology is a Language. If you understand this language, The Sky Speaks to You."

—Dane Rudhyar


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"Without astrology man treads, as it were, in the dim twilight of ignorance."

—Luke Dennis Broughton


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"Your path is illuminated by a road-map of stars. I am here to guide you!"

—Ambika Devi


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"Astrology has no more useful function than this, to discover the inmost nature of a man and to bring it out into his consciousness, that he may fulfil it according to the law of light."

—Aleister Crowley


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"The soul of the newly born baby is marked for life by the pattern of the stars at the moment it comes into the world, unconsciously remembers it, and remains sensitive to the return of configurations of a similar kind."

—Johannes Kepler


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"I believe in a lot of astrology. I believe in aliens…I look up into the stars and I imagine: ‘How self-important are we to think that we are the only life-form?’"

—Katy Perry


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"We are born at a given moment, in a given place and, like vintage years of wine, we have the qualities of the year and of the season of which we are born. Astrology does not lay claim to anything more."

—Carl Jung


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"About astrology and palmistry: they are good because they make people vivid and full of possibilities. They are communism at its best. Everybody has a birthday and almost everybody has a palm."

—Kurt Vonnegut


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"Astrology had an important role in the ancient world. You can’t understand many things unless you know something about astrology—the plays of Shakespeare and so on."

—Steven Pinker


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"I was born during an eclipse. I believe very much in astrology. If you were born on an eclipse it indicates your destiny is chaotic."

—Gloria Vanderbilt


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"We are born at a given moment, in a given place and, like vintage years of wine, we have the qualities of the year and of the season of which we are born. Astrology does not lay claim to anything more."

—Carl Jung


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"The way that I see astrology is as a repository of thought and psychology. A system we’ve created as a culture as way to make things mean things."

—Eleanor Catton


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"To the medical man, astrology is invaluable in diagnosing diseases and prescribing a remedy, for it reveals the hidden cause of all ailments."

—Max Heindel


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"Astrology is assured of recognition from psychology, without further restrictions, because astrology represents the summation of all the psychological knowledge of antiquity."

—Carl Jung


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"For all its complexity, however, astrology remains fundamentally simple. It offers a time-honored system of symbols that sum up key aspects of human life while providing profound insights and practical guidance."

—Anne M. Nordhaus-Bike


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"The planets are God’s punctuation marks pointing the sentences of human fate, written in the constellations."

—James Lendall Basford


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"There is no better boat than a horoscope to help a man cross over the sea of life."

—Varaha Mihira


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"We are merely the stars’ tennis-balls, struck and banded which way please them."

—John Webster


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"The astronomer has a starry map of the past; the astrologer, of our futures."

—Terri Guillemets


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"A child is born on that day and at that hour when the celestial rays are in mathematical harmony with his individual karma."

—Sri Yukteswar


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"Astrology is one of the earliest attempts made by man to find the order hidden behind or within the confusing and apparent chaos that exists in the world."

—Karen Hamaker-Zondag


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"I will look on the stars and look on thee, and read the page of thy destiny."

—Letitia Elizabeth Landon


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"Astrology is like a weather report; it tells you what conditions you’re likely to face in the future. If the weatherman says it’s probably going to rain, you bring an umbrella. If you follow that advice, you won’t get wet."

—Lee Goldberg


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"There is something out there. Astrology is like a game of chess with an invisible partner. We set out the board and the rules, make a move, and then find that the pieces are moving themselves, as if by an invisible hand."

—Noel Tyl


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"Don’t laugh at the voice of the stars. They are far away, their rays are light and pale, and we can barely see their sleeping shadows, but their sorcery is stern and dark."

—Leonid Andreyev


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"Though Astrology is like a deep ocean…anybody can get knowledge through going deeply in water and get some drops of nectar of this divine knowledge."

—Onkarlal Sharma Prmad TC mark

33 Girls Recall The Moment They First Realized They Were Straight

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 06:00 PM PST

Thought.is
Thought.is
Found on AskReddit.

1. A boy I liked at school made me feel 'warm' between my legs and I thought I peed myself.

"When I was around 10, a boy I liked at school made me feel 'warm' between my legs and I thought I peed myself. Turns out I was sexually attracted to him."

LandShark93


2. In third grade I threw a giant size Hershey’s Kiss at a boy’s head.

"In third grade I threw a giant size Hershey’s Kiss at a boy’s head. I still like men."

We_renotonmyisland


3. When puberty hit like a freight train and boys were suddenly cute and no longer gross and having cooties.

"When puberty hit like a freight train and boys were suddenly cute and no longer gross and having cooties."

eggplantlasagna


4. HANSON.

"HANSON."

HIGHimallison


5. When I saw a dick and liked it.

"When I saw a dick and liked it. I was 15. I still love dick."

CrossBreedP


6. After I hit puberty and saw half-naked bearded hockey players.

"After I hit puberty and saw half-naked bearded hockey players during post game reaction interviews and realized I was thinking what their penis looked like and got wet after thinking that. I really liked what I saw."

Quellyle


7. Leonardo DiCaprio in Titanic was my sexual awakening.

"I had crushes on boys prior, but Leonardo DiCaprio in Titanic was my sexual awakening. That car scene, I didn’t really know what was going on but I knew I wanted to be Rose so bad at that moment."

Stranger0nReddit


8. I had a boyfriend in kindergarten and planned out our marriage at age 5.

"I had a boyfriend in kindergarten and planned out our marriage at age 5."

sexi_squidward


9. When I was a kid in 2005 and watched Titanic for the first time.

"When I was a kid in 2005 and watched Titanic for the first time. Leonardo DiCaprio. Hubba hubba, mama in trubba."

lisetteatthelibrary


10. I had a crazy crush on a boy when I was five.

"I’ve thought about it, and I guess the first signs of it when I had a crazy crush on a boy when I was five. I mean, in a five-year-old way, I was really in love with him. We were even girlfriend and boyfriend for eleven days, until he kissed Jenny during block clean-up—I cried the whole time (and conveniently missed clean-up). I still remember the little round stain my tears made on the reading corner pillow, and I still think of him fondly.

I was always pretty boy-crazy, I always had some sort of mad, passionate crush. And I was always kind of a daddy’s girl in a very stereotypical heterosexual development sort of way, so I can probably remember having heterosexual feelings even before I really was able to index my memories in time.

Oddly, as hardcore hardwired heterosexual as I am, later in life I did find that I have some very homoromantic inclinations and have had a several very intimate and intense friendships with lesbians or bi women that fizzled disappointingly. I don’t know what to do with this part of myself or what it really means."

zazzlekdazzle


11. When I was eleven, one of the boys at school had already hit puberty and had developed biceps.

"When I was eleven, one of the boys at school had already hit puberty and had developed biceps. And I noticed and liked them. That was an odd moment for a pre-puberty me."

ukhoneybee


12. My mom says she knew I was straight from when I was a baby, before I could even talk.

"My mom says she knew I was straight from when I was a baby, before I could even talk. I’d always watch the men telling stories."

wobblywalker


13. The first time I saw David Bowie in Labyrinth.

"The first time I saw David Bowie in Labyrinth."

andybeebop


14. In first grade my crush talked to me and I barfed in excitement.

"In first grade my crush talked to me and I barfed in excitement."

thelasershow


15. I would always look at the hockey players and say 'he’s cute.'

"Straight female here: My parents have season tickets to a major junior hockey team and I would always look at the players and say 'he’s cute' and same goes for a boy in my kindergarten class."

CatsInSpaceSwag


16. Boys have given me butterflies in my tummy since I was in preschool.

"Boys have given me butterflies in my tummy since I was in preschool. College experimentation with women proved to be physically exciting, but I’ve never been emotionally fulfilled by a woman in the same way that I’ve been able to connect and fall in love with men."

chachicka22


17. I was about five. Saw a Marlon Brando type in tight jeans.

"I was about five. Saw a Marlon Brando type in tight jeans. Dreamt about him that night in a graphic fashion. Told my mom the next morning and she begged me to never tell anyone."

Caribbean_Queen_1985


18. As a teenager I realized I got terribly shy around a cute guy.

"I think it was when as a teenager I realized I got terribly shy around a cute guy, but the second a pretty girl walked in I want to befriend them immediately and ask what brow pencil they use."

soychild


19. David Duchovny was a puberty bombshell for many of us females back in the 90's.

"David Duchovny was a puberty bombshell for many of us females back in the 90's. Once I started rationalizing how maybe it could work out once I turned 18 even though it was a big age difference (he’s like 20 years older than me?) there remained little doubt."

TheFuturist47


20. In kindergarten when a cute boy in my class kissed me in the library.

"In kindergarten when a cute boy in my class kissed me in the library and I wanted to hold his hand the whole day after that hahaha."

Idlehandsatadesk


21. I remember being four years old and staring at older guys I thought were cute.

"I remember being four years old and staring at older guys I thought were cute (cashiers, grocery baggers, parents' friends' kids, etc.) who fit the punky type I'm still attracted to. I think I've always known I like boys."

bradzy


22. I was five years old and wanted to kiss a teenage boy.

"I’ve always known—as far back as I can remember. I was five years old and wanted to kiss a teenage boy (babysitter’s brother) but settled for sitting next to him at church potlucks as often as I could."

Avocadoavenger


23. I realized—even though a lot of my friends were gorgeous, vagina just isn’t for me.

"I knew I always liked boys, but never really knew there was another option until I was probably 9 or 10. Even then, I didn’t really think about it. Then in middle school, my best friend confessed to me she was bi. I started thinking about it, and I realized—even though a lot of my friends were gorgeous, vagina just isn’t for me."

oh_boisterous


24. I would talk to my Jonathan Taylor Thomas posters until I fell asleep.

"When I would talk to my Jonathan Taylor Thomas posters until I fell asleep, and then watch Home Improvement because of him <3"

sunshine_rainbow


25. Val Kilmer. In Willow. 1988.

"Val Kilmer. In Willow. 1988."

animalogic


26. I had a crush on Luke Skywalker when I was six.

"I had a crush on Luke Skywalker when I was six. I finally realized that Han Solo was the real catch when I was eight."

this_is_for_real


27. I watched Dirty Dancing and fell in love with Patrick Swayze.

"My dad used to watch a lot of Arnold Schwarzenegger movies. I must have been around 5 or 6 when I started imaging him laying in bed with me and being my boyfriend. And then I watched Dirty Dancing and fell in love with Patrick Swayze."

Awakend13


28. A boy named Charles bitch-slapped 12-year-old me with his face and hair and body.

"When I really realized it was in 6th grade. If I didn’t have a clue before (and I kind of did because boys made me uncomfortable and I thought one was cute in 4th grade), a boy named Charles bitch-slapped 12-year-old me with his face and hair and body into my own personal hell-terosexuality. I couldn’t stop thinking about him and how amazing he was. It was terribly uncomfortable. Nowadays, when I like a guy, there is far less fanfare. Mainly just shyness and general awkwardness in their presence. Puberty, man. It really sticks it to ya."

whyisoyourwaterpink


29. I suddenly stopped at a vibrator tele-shop ad.

"I was 10: We were on vacation for 2 weeks at my uncle's house and I was alone in my room browsing TV channels and I suddenly stopped at a vibrator tele-shop ad."

Sjieshkebab


30. Watched the DiCaprio version of Romeo and Juliet in class.

"Watched the DiCaprio version of Romeo and Juliet in class….The moment Leo first walked on screen and turned to look straight at the camera. Time stopped. Sound went fuzzy. I forgot how to breathe. The other girls in the class were squealing up a storm but I forgot how to function. I’m not exaggerating. That man is a danger to society."

Omnimechanica


31. My friend had a boyfriend in our class and I was really jealous because I thought he was super-cute.

"When I was about 7 or 8 my friend had a boyfriend in our class and I was really jealous because I thought he was super-cute."

xxBobbiMaexx


32. When I started preschool I was boy crazy.

"Before I was in school. I already had a crush on Robin Williams at age 3 and then when I started preschool I was boy crazy. Tried to hold all of the boys' hands on the bean bag under the craft table. lol"

SuperFrizz1987


33. I remember him pushing me and we fell down all tangled up and he smelled DIVINE :).

"I was 6. This boy in my class used to run after me when we played tag even if it wasn’t my turn. I remember him pushing me and we fell down all tangled up and he smelled DIVINE :)"

Marcos_Terror TC mark

Read this: 33 Guys Recall The Moment They First Realized They Were Straight

55 Truth Or Drink Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend Tonight Over A Bottle Of Wine

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:00 PM PST

Twenty20, kirstylee
Twenty20, kirstylee

1. Did you masturbate to the thought of me before we met?

2. Do you think I’m the person you’re going to marry?

3. Have you ever faked an orgasm with me?

4. Have I given you the best sex you’ve ever had?

5. When did you realize that you were in love with me?

6. What went through your mind when you first saw me?

7. What do I do to turn you on without realizing it?

8. What fetish do you have that I don’t know about yet?

9. If you could change one thing about our sex life, what would it be?

10. What does your mom really think of me?

11. Did I ever buy you a gift that you pretended to like, but actually hated?

12. Who was the last person you had a sex dream about?

13. Where was the craziest place you’ve ever had sex with someone else?

14. When was the last time you watched porn?

15. Are you horny right now?

16. How many sex toys do you own?

17. Do you think I’m more attractive now or when we first met?

18. If we break up, do you think you’ll be the one getting dumped or that I’ll be?

19. If you were offered a ton of cash, would you do a porno?

20. What was the last lie you told me?

21. What annoying thing do I do that you can’t stand?

22. Have you ever thought about breaking up with me?

23. When was the last time you spoke to your ex?

24. What’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without getting laid?

25. Did you ever suspect that I was cheating on you?

26. When was the last time someone hit on you?

27. Have you ever had a one-night stand?

28. How old were you when you masturbated for the first time?

29. Would you have a threesome with me and one of your guy friends?

30. Have you ever used a dating website before?

31. Do you actually like my friends?

32. How many people have you slept with?

33. How many people have you kissed?

34. Have you ever thought about someone else during sex with me?

35. Do you like my cooking or your mother’s cooking better?

36. Would you let me read through all of your text messages if I asked to see your phone right now?

37. Do you love your pet more than you love me?

38. Am I the “type” you usually go after?

39. Have you ever sent someone else a dick pic?

40. Do you enjoy going down on me?

41. Which one of my friends would you sleep with if we weren’t dating?

42. Are you happy with our sex life?

43. If you could sleep with any celebrity, who would you choose?

44. When was the last time you masturbated?

45. Have you ever had an STD?

46. What do I do during sex that you don’t actually enjoy?

47. What should I do more of during sex?

48. Have you ever been to a strip club?

49. Do you like the way I dress?

50. What song reminds you of another girl?

51. Do you wish my boobs were bigger?

52. Am I good at giving blowjobs?

53. Do you think I’m out of your league or you’re out of my league?

54. What website do you use to watch porn?

55. If we got married, what would your vows be? TC mark

30 Paulo Coelho E-Cards That Will Inspire You To Lead A Better Life

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:30 PM PST

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Please, For The Love Of God, Never Call It ‘Making Love’

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:00 PM PST

Sophia Sinclair
Sophia Sinclair

I don’t know if there’s something inherently wrong with me. I mean, no, don’t answer that. I know there’s something wrong with me. I’ve got doctors who could confirm. But that’s not the point. (Or maybe it is?)

I just feel like I need to say something. And hey, maybe I’m alone in this. I might be the freak with commitment issues and afraid of real intimacy. But I have to speak my truth. I need to tell the world how I feel.

“Making love” is the fucking grossest phrase I’ve ever heard.

Have I made love before? Yes. 100%. And it’s been the best sex I’ve ever had. But did we call it that?

No.

No.

Because, ew.

‘Making love’ sounds like some procedure that Hannibal performs right before he murders you. I’m not sure how this became an acceptable thing to say. Sex is a lovely word. Sex is a lovely thing, really. Why did we need to change it?

Making love?

*Gagging*

I just want to level with you, it’s impossible to say, “I want to make love to you,” without sounding like you’re a serial killer.

So do yourself (and the person you’re trying to woo) a favor, call it LITERALLY anything else. Sex. Fuck. Bang. Get in there. Action. Coitus. Fornication. Carnal knowledge.

ANYTHING ELSE.

WE’RE BEGGING YOU.

PLEASE. TC mark

You Should Be Able To Do These 13 Things Without Any Help From A Man

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:01 PM PST

Unsplash, Matthew Hamilton
Unsplash, Matthew Hamilton

1. Look in the mirror and like what you see. You shouldn’t need constant compliments and right swipes on Tinder to feel attractive. You should learn to love your body in its natural form. You should learn to love yourself.

2. Survive a rough day. Sure, life is easier when someone is there to support you and give you a relaxing back massage — but you shouldn’t need those things. You should be strong enough to get back on your feet, even if no one else is around to pull you up.

3. Fall asleep. You don’t need your head on his chest or his breath in your ear to fall asleep. You should learn to be comfortable by yourself — whether it’s in a coffee shop or in your own bed.

4. Defend yourself. You shouldn’t need a man by your side to protect you when something goes wrong. You should know how to kick ass on your own. So sign up for that self-defense class ASAP.

5. Make enough money to survive. Don’t beg your boyfriend for a few extra bucks to pay the rent. Become a self-sufficient woman that puts in enough hours to keep herself fed and sheltered.

6. Fix basic problems. You should be able to sew a button back on your shirt and figure out why your computer isn’t connecting to the internet. You’re more than smart enough to sort it all out.

7. Orgasm. You don’t need a tongue in between your legs to experience an earth-shattering orgasm. You should be able to create the same result with a vibrator or your own five fingers.

8. Drive. Get your license, so you don’t have to bum rides off of your boyfriend. And if you aren’t interested in driving yourself around, then at least earn enough money to pay for an Uber every weekday.

9. Cook. You’re not meant to become a five-star chef, but you should at least learn to whip up a few simple meals. You can’t survive on fast food forever.

10. Take care of your car. You should know when to change the oil and how to swap out a tire. You don’t want to end up breaking down or crashing, all because you didn’t put in the proper maintenance.

11. Travel. You shouldn’t be terrified to meet your friends in a new part of town or hop on a plane by yourself. You should trust yourself to make the right decisions and get there safely on your own.

12. Hold a conversation. You shouldn’t expect your boyfriend to speak for you. If someone asks you a question, answer it yourself. He’s no more interesting than you are.

13. Be happy. You shouldn’t be depressed whenever your boyfriend leaves the room. You should have a life without him. You should be happy, even when he isn’t around to kiss and cuddle. TC mark

30 Signs That The Guy You’re Dating Is A Basic Bro

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 02:30 PM PST

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This Is The Kind Of Love You Deserve

Posted: 30 Nov 2016 02:00 PM PST

tamaralvarez
tamaralvarez

You deserve someone who wants to give you a fucking text back, y'know? Someone who wants you, only you, and makes you feel wanted. Someone who can't help but message you first thing in the morning when the sun light is slow-dancing through the curtain, and they're barely waking. Someone who wants to spend their drunken Friday nights with you, but also their lazy lemonade Sundays. Someone who holds their one-person umbrella right above you when it's bucketing down, so that you're sheltered, even if it means they get soaked through. You deserve someone who thinks of you, often. Someone who calls you on the phone at the end of a long day, because they want to hear the sound of your voice before they drift off into slumber. Someone who makes plans with you on a Tuesday evening, because the weekend is just too far away, and who cares if we have to go to work the next day. Someone who says definitely, not maybe, and follows through. You deserve to hear a song on the radio that makes you melt on the inside at the mere thought of this someone. Someone who could watch you sleeping for hours at a time, and be perfectly content in the grace and stillness of that moment. Someone who steals a cheeky kiss when you're mid-sentence and least expecting to find their lips. Someone who will happily pig out on pizza with you in bed, and not judge the sweatpants & top knot look you're sporting. Someone who is just that into you. You deserve someone who challenges the both of you constantly; someone who makes you strive to be better each day, because they're trying to be better too. Someone you can count on to stick around when the shit hits the fan, which it will. Someone who chooses to lift you up, always. You deserve magic, and fireworks, and confetti canons exploding in your clear blue skies. You deserve someone who will always be careful with your heart, because they know just how fragile it already was before they held it. Someone who's heart aches whenever yours does. Someone who wakes up next to you each day feeling like they've hit the jackpot, over and over again, and thinking what on earth did they do in their past life to be so damn lucky. You deserve someone's complete attention. Someone who looks at you, and I mean really sees you, and all of the beauty you hold. You deserve to be someone's first choice. Someone's best friend. Someone's partner in crime. Someone's everything. You deserve to be loved; and loved extraordinarily well. And to be told that you are loved, every single day.

Beautiful girl, you deserve no less than this kind of love. TC mark

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